A rant. I cant sleep so this is what I do!

WHY ARE WE SO DAMN JUDGMENTAL OF EACH OTHER?  Its like- we're almost bred to be jealous, snarky girls. I was at a prenatal appt the other day and heard these little 10 year old girls say, "Wow, shes really pretty, but a total wh***". WHAT. Ohmergerd if I heard my son say something like that he wouldn't know what type of fresh hell he would unleash on himself. Where would they learn something like that? Family? Friends? Probably both, unfortunately. I mean, I knew "curse" words when I was 10- but did I say them? No. Ugh. My SO and I agreed to never curse or fight in front of our son. I don't think its healthy and if he does end up saying something like that- at least I know it wasn't from us!

On another note- I absolutely HATE (Yes, I know that's a strong word but get over it) moms who look at you like you are not good enough! Ladys- YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH AND NO ONE CAN TELL YOU DIFFERENT!!!! Fortunately, no one really picks on me or looks at me weird. If they do I don't let it bother because I don't care! Also it may help that I'm a strong tatted up Sicilian woman who has no problem standing up for what I believe in. Anddd maybe because my SO is over six feet tall and built like a line backer (which he was in high school!). Anywho. My thing is I hate other moms that feel like they need to push their beliefs on you. I'm an open person and I realize everyone doesn't have the same opinion that I do and that's ok. But you don't go seeing me push it upon people. We will be getting our son circumcised. Why you may ask? Because we are proudly Jewish!! Will I be breast feeding? No! But most of all- do I care about the judgmental stickuptheirbum moms that say I'm harming my child? NOT AT ALL. Its my child and I will do what I think it best for me and for my baby. Is that really so hard for people to wrap their head around? The fact that other people feel differently from them? Maybe Im going on a sixth month preggo rant because I'm mad at the fact I cant sleep anymore because I'm to damn uncomfortable. But hey- that's what this place is for, right??? If you don't like it then you can shove it! Personally- we've never experienced some one saying that, "We are harming our child" but I've known people that have had that happen to them. My friend Jamie was walking through Target and was at the check out line when a woman walked up to her and her three year old and said to her daughter, "Where is your mommy?". Jamie looked at her and goes, "I'm right here". The lady says, "Obviously not because you aren't talking to her in baby talk. We all know baby talk is how you communicate with them" and left. Wait, what?? How does that make any sense? Because my friend chooses to talk to her daughter with out saying goo goo or gaga, it means she isn't communicating with her correctly? Now that's all types of weird.

I guess the point I'm getting at is; lady's- love yourself and don't act crazy if you see some one doing something different than you. Don't think, "Wow, they are obviously are poor and cant afford a child because they use hand me downs". You look silly and seriously- I hope I meet you some day because you'll have to deal with me. An angry, swollen, nauseous, sleep deprived Italian woman.

Lovely women unite!!!